God is amazing! He brings things together for our good, and knows just what to do to encourage us when we are down…read on…
Yesterday I was feeling in a rather down mood, and I’m not entirely sure why. Could be stress, hormones, the fact that my back hurts a LOT…the moon, the end of the semester, betrayed friendships…but I know one thing that probably added to my mood: uncertainty. My life right now is not certain at all. I’m uncertain of my career, housing arrangements, lovability, and even of my friendships. I plan to go to USF in the fall to study music education…but right now I am not sure that’s what I want to do with my life. I’ve contemplated being a counselor of some sort, either a relationship counselor, or maybe even a children’s counselor. I hate seeing children that are unloved or abused. I HATE it. If I could help children know they are loved, or help a marriage to work out, that would make me happy. (I once had someone prophesy that I would work with children in the future…possibly be a music teacher in a foreign country too.) I also don’t know about housing…I can’t really go back home, the condo may not be usable, and I can’t live in a dorm either. Oh, and I don’t have a job. My friendships have been betrayed lately. Sometimes I feel like certain people don’t trust me…and often like certain people aren’t trust worthy. Mostly because of the hurt of one friend, I am now questioning everything, I can’t help it. And the romance department in my life has never been certain, though the “man club” did make me feel good, there were no potential relationships.
Last night I was at my family’s house for my brother’s birthday party. Just a family party, cake and bar-b-q, and the typical loudness of my family. We watched “The Tale of Despereaux” (cute movie) and as we watched I was thinking this poem up in my head (it’s unfinished):
Uncertainty’s the stuff of life,
Or so the sages say.
It prods and pokes and picks and prys,
But will not go away.
To some life may bring years of love,
And to their fields rain,
To others grey and lonely days,
And long life filled with pain.
I was feeling kind of meh as I went to sleep last night. Too much sugar, back hurting, uncertainties swirling around in my head…am I doing the right thing? Should I be pursuing these things? Should I change my course of action? Should I give up on him? Does anyone care? And then I reached over for my book, “My Utmost for His Highest.” I’ve been behind on reading it, but the page from yesterday was PERFECT. It was about gracious uncertainty. (The page is below, you don’t have to read it though.)
And yesterday I got a comment in my honesty box: “I can tell that you are an awesome person! Stay close to God and the rest will come.”
These are all little whispers of love that God uses to encourage me; tiny things that some people may consider coincidences, but I know that they are little things meant to remind me of his goodness. Though I’m uncertain, and still feeling a bit off today, I am reassured of God’s great love for me. He is good, and he has my life in His wonderful hands. I may be down, but He will help me through it. “The king of love my savior is, his goodness faileth never. I nothing lack when He is mine and I am his forever.” Amen!
April 29: Gracious Uncertainty
“…it has not yet been revealed what we shall be…” (1 John 3:2)
Our natural inclination is to be so precise-trying always to forecast accurately what will happen next-that we look upon uncertainty a a bad thing. WE think that we must reach some predetermines goal, but that is not the nature of the spiritual life. The nature of the spiritual life is that we are certain in our uncertainty. Consequently, we do not put down roots. Our common sense says, “Well, what if I were in that circumstance?” We cannot presume to see ourselves in any circumstance in which we have never been.
Certainty is the mark of the commonsense life-gracious unccertainty is the mark of the spiritual life. To be certain of God means that we are uncertain in all our ways, not knowing what tomorrow may bring. This is generally expressed with a sigh of sadness, but it should be an expression of breathless expectation. We are uncertain of the next step, but we are certain of God. As soon as we abandon ourselves to God and do the task He has placed closest to us, He begins to fill our lives with surprises. When we become simply a promoter or a defender of a particular belieef, something within us dies. That is not believing God-it is only believing our belief about Him. Jesus said, “…unless you…become as little children…” (Matthew 18:3). The spiritual life is the life of a child. We are no uncertain of God, just uncertain of what He is going to do next. If our certainty is only in our beliefs, we develop a sense of self-righteousness, become overly critical, and are limited by the view that our beliefs are complete and settled. But when we have the right relationship with God, life is full of spontaneous, joyful uncertainty and expectancy. Jesus said, “…believe also in Me” (John 14:1) not, “Believe certain things about Me.” Leave everything to Him and it will be gloriously and graciously uncertain how He will come in-but you can be certain that he will come. Remain faithful to him.
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